On this morning’s train ride into DC, I was contemplating some issues with a couple of co-workers, both of whom are Christians. One is even a part-time minister.
As a Christian, I am tasked with turning the other cheek, loving them anyway, and praying for them. As someone with an undergraduate degree in psychology, I am also equipped with several research-based behavioral modification techniques. Behavior modification seeks to “replace unacceptable responses with acceptable ones.”1
How do the two practices overlap? Psychology’s version of Christianity’s “turning the other cheek” is to ignore bad behaviors - and reward good behaviors. In my life experiences “ignoring” bad behavior does not always make it go away. What's my next step if they don't? Should I switch from the "ignore"/"turn the other cheeck" to one of the other behavior modification techniques? Or should I stay the course?
Sources:
- CliffsNotes.com. Behavior Modification. 14 Jul 2011. <http://www.cliffsnotes.com/study_guide/topicArticleId-25438,articleId-25349.html>
I believe your stance of only speaking and doing what is required of you is performing your sisterly duties to encourage, uplift, love and impart one of the most important attributes “ love”. The love you ooze out helps to change lives and atmospheres, so keep being you and allowing your light to shine so the lost may see it. Your light can lead someone back to Christ from the way of destruction.
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