Kelly
D. Higgins writes about “A Chance Encounter” with a homeless person that motivated
her Christian efforts to help others in need. (These
Days,
11/08/12, Vol 42, No. 4).
She was at a McDonald’s with her teenage son when she observed a man in well-worn
clothing ordering only a small coffee. Although she felt awkward about approaching
him, she overcame her discomfort and asked if he wanted some food. He replied “I
most certainly would,” with dignity. His quiet dignity is what struck her the
most. It was that all eyes were on her that struck me the most. I could only
hope the others would be encouraged to do likewise in the future.
Many
years ago, I lost an opportunity to help someone likewise in need and the truth
be told, it haunts me until today. I was not feeling well and in line for an
x-ray at Shady Grove Adventist Hospital. I hadn’t slept well so was struggling
to focus on writing my co-payment check out correctly.
The
young lady next to me was almost in tears because the receptionist said there
was a co-pay but the lady had no money on her. My gut reaction was this is a
private matter and I tried not to eaves drop while I continued to stumble my
way through my check-writing process. The lady ended up leaving in a lot of
distress because she didn’t have the money for what appeared to be an important
and perhaps time-sensitive test.
I
realized I could help but I was too late. I left my purse on the counter and
ran out the door to catch her so I could offer to pay her co-pay. Like Mrs.
Higgins, all eyes were on me. Most thought I was crazy. I never found her and I
felt stupid for not thinking faster even though I had my own issues.
I
prayed for weeks that she was OK and got the test in time. I will never know.
But the consequences are that whenever I see someone who needs help, even if it’s
a buck or two in the checkout line, I make sure I do it and without hesitation.
“Action
Step: Find a way to share what God has given you.” (Kelly D. Higgins,
Fredericton, New Brunswick).
